Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Twenty-Five Stiches. Time To get Away.!

How many times do you have to get hurt.?
 Why Is It That Girls Stay By "Their Man" Even When He Treats Them No Good?  Well The Answer Is Different For Everbody, But For Me, From My Perspective, I know Girls Feel like they owe their man. So giving "The Love Of Your Life" Your Virginity Is Never Easy. But Then Again Who Said It would Be? Girls Have A Committment That Guys Just Don't Have! Boys Freak Who They Can While We Girls Freak Who We Want! Meaning girls {most girls} care about their body and don't just want anybody in their business while (most)guys don't care. And If We Give guys Our Body Then they Should Cherish It Just As much As we Do. Most girls just assume this, but Ladies Don't go Stalking the Man. Girls have a tendency to get more emotional and everything. Having sex means something more, and everything the man does we think he's cheating. Well no, it's not always true. If He's such A dog Then You get what is Coming to You Because You Knew He Was A Dog when You Met Him! So You See The Answer Is Simple. We Take The Crap Because We Gave Him Our "Jewels"!  But the little stuff that hurts us can turn big in no time! When a girl has sex with a boy and doesn't have respect for herself, she's letting him know that he can do whatever he wants. First it starts small, and then he can get abusive.

    Next thing you know he's beating you. Who deserves that? no one. I was brought up to know I am special and never let anyone put their hands on me. {I got Tooo many Brothers for that!} But yall sooo In love, Huh? If a Man OR Woman put their hands on you then They DON'T love you! Just that simple. Five million women are physically or sexually assaulted by a husband or boyfriend each year.
This website meant a lot to me and I encouarge everyone to read it. Read more:  http://www.livestrong.com/article/84942-abusive-relationship/#ixzz1fzG9rog8   

This link is a great site for figuring out if you're in a healthy relationship. You can take the quiz and see for yorself.

1 comment:

  1. Jackie I think you bring up an important topic here. Why is it that there is a double standard for boys and girls? Why is virginity so valuable for girls and not boys? "The Purity Myth" by Jessica Valenti is a great book on this topic if you're interested.

    http://www.amazon.com/Purity-Myth-Americas-Obsession-Virginity/dp/1580052533

    -Marisa

    P.S. I love your pictures :)

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